Thanks for all the support - I do know that you are right that the music dream is more of the driver than 'her' - but in my H's mind, they are totally connected and he feels he needs her for his music. How do I stay friends with him? Every time I see him or speak to him (he calls me almost daily), I just want him to tell me he loves me. I feel so sad. Also, a true friend would ask him how his music is going and be encouraging but I hate hearing anything about it because it is all connected with her. I can't even take my kids to watch him play anymore because she is always there. It really hurts. SO how can I be his friend when I hate to hear about the very thing that is most important to him - his music? Any ideas?
Me: 39, H: 37 Married 12 yrs EA 01/07, bomb 07/07. He moved out 09/07. Lived alone for some time, moved in with OW in 2009, moved out again Mar 2010 S:8 D:11
