I agree with mink. Thats your 180. You do the complete opposite of what W would expect of you. She thinks you're not emotional enough? Well, get more emotional. As for me I'm the opposite of you... a 180 for me is to NOT get emotional.
You have some contact and thats a good sign.
Keep dbing because it seems you are getting somewhere with it.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*