Oh, counselor also thought that W probably wasn't 'wired' during the talk, she has been uncomfortable about her guilty actions and knew I was acting 'weird' and wanted to get it out in the open. Since I had been kind to her the night before she needed to counteract that feeling.
However, she said that I should always be careful because W is probably being coached.
And of course tonight W is being 'nicer' but not 'too nice'.
We had one interaction where I used my new 'reality check' attitude. W asked me "Are you ok?" tonight. I looked at her and said "I really don't like it when you ask me that because you imply that I'm not 'ok', it's something you've always done when you think I'm having some kind of emotional problem. I'm not. I'm fine"
she said "Well I am just trying to 'check in' with you. I don't know how I should ask you where you're at these days".
Right, she's taking a temperature reading. But the question itself implies that I am NOT 'ok'. I'm tired of that kind of attitude.
So I said "How about saying 'how is your day going?' Right now my day is going fine, it's been busy and I've got a lot on my mind.".
She said that she would do that and she had to leave now so she left.
Why does she need to ask these questions to begin with? She isn't here to 'take care of me' any more. Strange woman.
