Yes, Ms L, space is the key now. I can't hook up with her anyway - she has a girlfriend coming over to visit tonight, her cousin Friday and her sister Saturday.
We might have brunch on Sunday (her idea), I don't know, still a few days away.
I'm not feeling as panicky as I was 2 weeks ago, because we are moving toward reconciliation now. I still feel some uncertainty, but I think it's just the gravity of the situation doing that to me.