Grace,
I think it was in my last MC session that the sex and money control issue came up.

I've been thinking a lot about it also, and I have a theory. The MLCer will use what they control to gain leverage. Since my wife primarily controlled the sex, she withheld sex in an attempt to create an intolerable situation that would either a)convince me to reject her, or b)convince herself and others that she didn't love me anymore. In either case, it would be easier for her to leave the relationship.

Or maybe I'm overthinking things...

Bomb

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden