He isn't doing anything differently, except the other day when he stayed out when he should have had the kids. I got the "I was with work people...". Could have very well been true, however I have been burned once with the vague answers ("I was with the playgroup.." when he was with OW), so I don't believe him. IF it was work people, there is someone at work. I haven't outright asked him, I am afraid to. But I think I will in Florida.

Calling/texting...who knows...still on vibrate all the time. However, he doesn't use it as a pillow anymore. lol