I think you will be fine on the ride Treese! you know where not to go, you'll be able to do it.
I can't answer your other questions! I don't have an H! And W doesn't have an OM. But I NEVER get hugs. She doesn't tell me I am not getting them, but it isn't too hard to figure out!
The shirt? Maybe he figures you need more than him? Or, perhaps, it now has cooties? I have no idea!