Yes, indeed I must use caution with the fish contacts. I have gotten so patient waiting for my W to come around and I dont want to blow that by getting a girlfriend now.
Thanks for the tip about craigslist. They have all kinds of groups there (laughing group, satanic breast feeding group, etc..). I should be able to find something of interest.
I would much prefer to find some group that is all males.
The "Hold onto your N.U.T.s" book has as one of its 8 betterman tools to develop trusting relationships with other men. Maybe I should look into something like the Mason's.
