Right now she wants time and space. In my opinion, what is talked about during MC doesn't really count as R talk, though it certainly is. But it is "supposed" to be safe, in that environment. But if you were asking if you should be trying to see her more, the only answer I have is I don't think so!
What kind of court appt would start at 5? Isn't that quitting time over there? Well, hopefully it will be short and you can tell your wife you have to get somewhere real quick, but you'll meet her for dinner at 6:30.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
lol its a red light violation ticket someone is fighting. Municipale traffic is always held late were i work so people can come after work. The sad part is Cops are always at work.
That's wierd. Even traffic court here only goes until 5pm.
Where do you live?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
so when your wife moves out and says she wants time to think how DO you make contact for things like taxes? Also since i need to rescedual our C time ( the ONLY open line of communication we have) I had the C call her and ske what time worked for her. Im very worried as bt 10PM on friday my W had not called the C back. I know she checks her phone evry couple of hours so im scared she wont try to rescedual.
today waas the first time looking at a picture of her didn't bring me to instant tears. this scares me because i dont want to fall oput of love, i just feel so numb
{{{Marcum}}} I wish you weren't going through this pain! I wouldn't wish it on ANYONE! When my H first said he didn't want me to come home, I soaked my pillow in tears! And then when I saw him on the singles' site last week, I cried even more. I am surprised my apartment isn't floating. I wish there was something I could say to help you with the pain!
M: ten years BS23, BS17 Step-SS20, SS16, SS14 Separated: August 07
if there is a no-contact at all on the W part can u contqct without being pushy. I realy dont know how. I was figuring sending her a text on monday morning saying " what time works for you to go to C? i have to testify in a short red light trial and need to be there at 445 so the old time wont work"
How does that look? I am so scared that i litterly panic when i talk to her right now.
