Oh karen, I am so sorry. So very sorry. I wouldn't regret the email, it was short and to the point. I am sure it surprised her a bit. Is she married? Sorry if I missed that....
My H's OW was a friend of mine, just a *our kids are the same age, same school* friend, but friend none-the-less. I know how much it hurts.
Just stay clear of H if he is mad, this will pass. You had every right to do what you did. Wonder if OW will tell him about the email? Joie is right, this is a 180 for you.
