I'm listening to you FL. That's what we're here for. We can vent, make stupid mistakes, say anything we wish right here. Because it doesn't matter what we do here. Here is our safe place. We can talk about the things that we need to say here.
Our opinions are just that.
But we are worried about you.
Sometime I think that venting here and getting it out of my system helped me survive my divorce. Sometimes I think that being able to say those things I thought without saying them to anyone else helped me to hold my tongue when I needed to.
You're a good dad FL or you wouldn't even think about these things. I know my X never once thought about his boys. I did, and venting here made me less susceptible to saying anything in front of them. I know how you feel. I've felt what you are feeling. How could they do this to them. But if we have an outlet and are able to say what we feel here, then we can remain calm in the face of it.
Don't mistake me, I don't pretend that I've ever been in your position. I appreciate what you're doing and I can't imagine going through a D while being where you are. So I know I can't even begin to relate. I have been associated with the military in my life. I know what kind of people join. But I can't begin to understand the pain you have regarding your babies.
Just vent to us and we will not pass judgment.
Thank you so much for your service to our country.
