Hey EM!! I laughed that your H said "Its not like we going to Vermont!". That was funny. Its good you can laugh, but yet acknowledge that you are in such a better place now. The sex thing will come. Funny, my coworker here (he is 45 yrs old)..his W cheated, she ended it, they did Retro, and are soo much better but still haven't had sex yet either. He wants it, she isn't ready. Hard stuff, but totally easier to tackle since you guys are on the 'same team' now.