Well, H just called me on the phone at work to let me know about the deposit not going into my acct until tomorrow (change of rules there I guess?) He talked to me for about 15 min as well. Talked about his car and how he doesn't know what he's going to do about that. Told me he got the new job he wanted within the company and he starts in a few weeks..he's very happy about this and it's doing something he's been wanting to do. They interviewed him today and offered right there. Then he went on to tell me that he's registered to go back to college to finish that up since that's also something he's wanted to do since we got married. I'm happy for him for all of this, I really am. I'm thinking that this leaves me out of the mix though. He's made all these plans and I had no clue.