Grace

I too believe the timimg and wanting to or not return has to do with at least some control.

H has always been in control.

Since this has happened I have seen him spin sometimes very much out of control.So out of character for him on so many levels.

That may have been the reason for him to take so long to leave.

He HATES the thought of renting because it is throwing his money away. This was ,Im sure of it, a player in the leaving.

I know there may have been other reasons to stay around but this was a factor.

And too returning will be a control thing for him.

Giving up some control because you cannot control all that happens when it comes to each other.

I have learned this in the dettaching process and it was really an awakening for me also.

E

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......