I think Kerry hit it on the head w/ the MLC. I know also that I tend to put myself down when I want H to make me feel better. Fishing for praise I guess. Sounds like W is going into another bout of depression thus the not feeling good.

Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1