The Longest Journey

[Rob1231]

That was good for our M and good for me. I have no regrets, and I know I didn't do anything wrong. Emotion is not wrong!

H, for his part, seems largely clueless. He's improving, but he's stuck and too afraid to risk anything...to risk being real and just putting it out there. Me, I've paid the cost of not speaking up or communicating, so I'm done with that. I'm not all the way there, but I pretty much don't avoid expressing my desires and feelings about most issues. In fact, I told him I didn't want to go to one of his co-worker's events last weekend because I didn't want to see LW. Put it right out there on the table, didn't care if he thought it was petty or weird or whatever. Because the thing is, I have to take care of ME first.

Way to go, SD! Remember, your R is a dynamic thing - it's simply impossible for you to change, without it changing the R, and changing H. Keep up the good work, it will pay off in the end.

Hope you all are well. SD is BACK.

I'll say! So glad to have you back, girlfriend!