lmg, I understand exactly what you are saying! 'Cept W doens't even share the bed! At some point, it just doesn't work. And the example of married life that we are showing our kids, well, it isn't all that great! I think you may well have a better chance at reconcilliation once the stress that you have by being together is gone. I'm not saying it is a good chance, just a better chance. It doesn't mean you've given up in the possibility.