If you love them, set them free...

[kturnernc]

I agree with Grace. She will come around in her own time. My sitch is about the same as far as her turning around in her own time. In the very beginning she was making all sorts of changes, being more attractive to em in the process, and was telling me that she was the happiest she has ever been... free, etc.

Then she started looking like she was not sleeping. Wehn asked why, she said it was because she was worried about me... the LBH! Ha! I think it was more because she was feeling guilty. Anyway, sorry for the digression. I had made an appointment for a mediator for me and my WAW but she never responded for the best time for her. She felt it was something that would benefit me and interrogate her. She was totally wrong there. But it serves as an example. I did notice that the last visit to the house, she has a lot of the books that I was reading about parenting the children after divorce.

I hope that it is not firming her view on D, but that is up to her not me. Anyway, i know how things can seem to others, i have had that happen.