You are probably right - she is not a book reader anyway.
I am taking the kids swimming Friday night as W has to work as a waitress, but have the rest of the weekend to myself. I will probably get some workouts in, hit a bucket of balls, and finish my taxes on Sat or Sun (which ever one is yucky weather). I actually am considering going out to a bar (I dont drink and I dont like bars) to see a guy I work with play in his band. That would be something different to keep me out of my lonely quiet house.
I also have a couple emails received and sent on plentyoffish.com as I have a profile on there of just looking for a friend/someone to hang out with. I was specifically looking for others there that are seperated so as to have someone in a similar situation to talk face to face with. I just dont have any other friends that have time to do things with me now. I do need to use caution as I dont want to go out with anyone looking for an R since I am still committed to saving my own M.
I think I will also look into joining some of the outdoor/hiking groups at meetup.com to keep myself busy during this lengthy time of waiting for my W to figure out what she wants in life.
