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I have often wondered if one of the reason why my H left was that it would be better for him to reject me then for me to reject him.


I suppose on some level it feels safer to reject than be rejected. At least there is a feeling of control.

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By our spouses are running away from their fears, it leaves us to confront ours. We become stronger...they stay where they are...hmmm.


I do find this interesting. Well, here's to becoming stronger. Cheers.