I just want to make it better. . .

[Evie]

Hi seek,

Glad to see you back safe and well, how was the trip? Do you feel better in yourself for having some time away?

I don't have any advice, but to just to let you know i'm here and listening.

I don't think your H hates you, he probably feels quilty for the pain he is causing you and needs more time to conclude what he does want.

How did his x wifes behave when they split up?

Could you possibly phone/txt H and keeping the conversation light and fluffy thank him for looking after the pets and ask after them? See how the conersation goes and maybe invite him over for brunch or a coffee over the weekend? Could you buy him a thank you card or a small gift of appreciation?

What's his LL?

((((seek)))

x eve