Sorry to hijack this thread, but Zebra, I read your old threads as I found they are very similar to what I'm going through with my wife. I am approximately where you were when she agreed to the first three months. So what ever happened? Are you still together? Does it really ever get better? <Get ready for the personal questions> Did you ever have sex with her again? How long did that take? Was it hard for you to be intimate with her again knowing she had been intimate with another man? Did you have a hard time getting past the thoughts of "I wonder if she did this with him" or "I wonder if he was better than me". Sorry if this dredges up old memories, just wondering if I have the strength to do this!!!!
