Thanks for the response Jbly. I have decided to keep them. Put them in a box in the closet for another day. It will always be apart of my life.
Haven't communicated with the XW for over a month. This is the longest that we have ever not spoken. I received a couple calls for her on Monday, which i relayed to her in an email on Tuesday am. As of this message, no response. Not even a thank you. Crazy.
Heading to dinner with a mutual friend this evening who also is the property manager for a house that XW is renting. Will be interesting to get her take on what the XW is doing as I am sure it will come up. She has known the XW for YEARS and is stunned at what is happening with her as well.
Hope everyone is good!
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids
Is there somewhere that you can pick up a translator for XWs?
Again, got a call for the XW on Friday from a department store asking her to call them. "This is not a soliciation. We need you to call." I didn't get home until late and then was out of town Saturday so, after not receiving an acknowledgement to my email of Tuesday, I called the XW Sunday morning. LM that the company had called again, provided the number and told her I would talk with her later. Left a nice message, but to the point.
She finally calls me 8 hours later to say thanks. She got the email earlier in the week and will call them. Probably nothing she says. Then proceeds to ask me about everything and everyone in my life. "How is work?" "How are your parents?", grandparents, aunt, my boss, etc. I answered short and to the point. I think I did ask about her parents as well as a kind reply.
After 30 mins, we hung up. No plans to meet..."talk with you later".
Why, if you wanted a D, wanted to get away from my "CRAZY FAMILY", do you proceed to ask about every single one and how they are doing? What is the purpose?
Fortunately, I think I am getting over her and moving on. This talk did not throw me for a loop....its more of a "whatever" thought for me.
I just hope that one of these days I can figure out what is going on to have some closure on the situation!
Sorry that I have not been able to reply to many of your posts. I have been so crazy busy that it has not allowed me recently but hope to find the time to drop in on each thread.
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids
LOL, My soon to be XW hardly ever returns my calls. I got a call from a bank concerning an account that was supposed to have been closed. Only to find out that not only am I still on the account but she is not handling the finances correctly. I was livid but there is nothing I can do about an account where she is the primary account holder. When she does call its generally confrontational. I don't know what to say other than to grin and bare it. Sure does wear on you. I am amused though from time to time when she asks what I am doing with the person I am dating. I never answer that question, would love to say none ya but that just adds to the irritation so I avoid it and her. I did get chewed on last week because my girls were at her house and trying to call the lady I am dating, long distance, grin. My girls really like her which does not make the XW all that happy but no matter how she has tried to intervene the girls love for this lady has remained. Apparently she will never affect that, other than to be an irritant. I love my girls but sure wish that connection to the XW wasn't there.
She finally calls me 8 hours later to say thanks. She got the email earlier in the week and will call them. Probably nothing she says. Then proceeds to ask me about everything and everyone in my life. "How is work?" "How are your parents?", grandparents, aunt, my boss, etc. I answered short and to the point. I think I did ask about her parents as well as a kind reply.
After 30 mins, we hung up. No plans to meet..."talk with you later".
Why, if you wanted a D, wanted to get away from my "CRAZY FAMILY", do you proceed to ask about every single one and how they are doing? What is the purpose?
CIAZ,
Man, have I seen this before..... I think she is simply wanting to maintain a "connection" to you.... IMHO, I think that is her way of attempting to pull you back in a bit....
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
I think she is simply wanting to maintain a "connection" to you.... IMHO, I think that is her way of attempting to pull you back in a bit....