My doctor, therapist and friends all keep telling me that they can't understand how I can be so calm with everything that W is doing... I just know that I have to accept that I can't change her mind, only can change myself and I am happy with the my changes so far and hopefully will keep going along this path.
BradNL,
I'm very glad to hear you have the wisdom to realize that. As if not being calm would help??? If anything it would only make you look jealious and controlling, and help her validate her decision. If you take the "high road" and be a great guy in spite of everything.... you come out the winner. Even if she leaves! She will have left something valuable.
Gosh, I'm so proud of you Andy hanging in there and being roommates with your wife so you can have full access to the kids and keep them safe. High-fives to you guy!!! You get my my dad-of-the-year vote and fall in my "massively attractive guy" category!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
