Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 10 of 14 1 2 8 9 10 11 12 13 14
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
Thanks N2B. I'm trying. I'm putting my feet down hard and really really going to try and try now!

Where in IL are you? I'm just outside of Chicago.

Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
This NC is definately difficult for me for sure! I'm fighting with all the thoughts in my head at the moment.

Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
Oh boy, H's car didn't start yesterday and now he said there's a bunch of issues with it and he might just get rid of it. Let's see what the MLCer drives around now. \:\)

Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
Well, H just called me on the phone at work to let me know about the deposit not going into my acct until tomorrow (change of rules there I guess?) He talked to me for about 15 min as well. Talked about his car and how he doesn't know what he's going to do about that. Told me he got the new job he wanted within the company and he starts in a few weeks..he's very happy about this and it's doing something he's been wanting to do. They interviewed him today and offered right there. Then he went on to tell me that he's registered to go back to college to finish that up since that's also something he's wanted to do since we got married. I'm happy for him for all of this, I really am. I'm thinking that this leaves me out of the mix though. He's made all these plans and I had no clue.

Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
H brought D home yesterday from his time with her. Nice time when he came in, chatted abit, had a good laugh (at my expense! \:\) ), and left on good terms. Nothing bad, no bad/sad attitudes either.

Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
Am I all alone on my thread or what? I haven't heard from anyone for a couple days now.
Okay, well, I hope everyone's doing well.

Joined: Sep 2007
Posts: 3,337
O
Member
Offline
Member
O
Joined: Sep 2007
Posts: 3,337
Hey Dar,

I'm reeading- thought I'd post aswell. You aren't alone- never alone!

Originally Posted By: darboyd5
Nice time when he came in, chatted abit, had a good laugh (at my expense! \:\) ), and left on good terms. Nothing bad, no bad/sad attitudes either.


Sounds really positive, especially the laughing and no sad attitudes!

When will you see H next?


Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart.
And you'll never walk alone.
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
I'll see him again tomorrow when he picks D up for another visit.

Oh, and I put on a fresh face of make up before he dropped her off yesterday too. I'll be doing that again tomorrow as well. ;\)

Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 9,678
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 9,678
Dar,
Don't yuou see?
he is making his own choices and doing things without your permission.
He's a big boy now and no longer needs a Mommy.


There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
M
Maya44 Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 4,521
Which part are you referencing to BND? The college part? I know he's a big boy and doesn't need a mommy. He told me about college a few months back (5-6months maybe?), but I thought he'd keep telling me more about it, as small talk. I think if I were to register for college again, I'd tell him about it. I wasn't asking for permission about it at all.

Page 10 of 14 1 2 8 9 10 11 12 13 14

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5