could you possibly bottle some of that and send it my way...
you really are doing such a great job..
don't worry about the "thoughts" hell my h's beeper went off last night round 11pm...I said nothing...but did think..hmmm ow leaving a lovey dovey voice mail??? h went into thinking it could be one of his employees that's having "life" problems..but then realized it went off not as a page but because he had put a new battery in and the time must have gotten screwey so it was the alarm going off..h pointing out that it didn't continue to go off...eventually I just said...I'm not worried about it..it's your beeper.
some really great stuff going on for you and h...try to just sit back and accept it all..
I wouldn't worry to much about h's love language..it may very well be that if you're happy he's happy..so be happy.