Jenny - It makes me cry, also, to read your post. I know how hurtful those kinds of conversations can be. I read what SG said, and I'm confused. Maybe I don't understand how to use DB to improve the pieces of the R that we do have. And, how do you attract him back without letting him know you are even interested? If you have any insight, please let me know. I was seeing results in the beginning, but not many anymore.

I hope that your day gets better. You can do this. You can do this.

M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him