If him not contacting OW is a boundry that you set for yourself than i would say do not go home until H understands that the boundry needs to be adhered to in order for you to piece the M back together. But it is up to you. Just wonder if he gets you home if he'll think that it can continue.
JAK
That is my thought to, that am I just saying it is ok. But then I read the boards and so many people are at a stage where the goal is to keep the relationship with the H going and let the other issues fizzle out and not cause the waves that will drive H closer to the OW. I don't want to lose him and let him think I am not willing to work on the M. My daughter wants to go home, she is small and doesn't understand, she just doesn't want to be at Granmda and Papa's without daddy.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
