If him not contacting OW is a boundry that you set for yourself than i would say do not go home until H understands that the boundry needs to be adhered to in order for you to piece the M back together.
But it is up to you. Just wonder if he gets you home if he'll think that it can continue.

JAK

Last edited by jak58; 02/21/08 04:53 PM.
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