Help Me Act AS IF, Part 3

[cw68]

LMG I understand where you are, it is frightening how similar our Hs are. I think your H is doing what mine did for over six months and that is wait until I decide to kick him out so they he wouldn't have to take ownership of it. A good friend of ours tipped me off by giving me his perspective on it just a few months after the bomb. I decided then and there to not give him the easy way out, the satisfaction on not having to make the decision. When he finally did, I told him that a) he had to leave that weekend and b) when the kids were told he had to tell him that it was his decision to move out but that we were both parents to them together 100%. I didn't want my kids to think any part of my being was OK with our family being split apart.