I am so sorry. I don't know what it is about seeing your marriage on paper like that. I think you handled it beautifully. You are human and that was quite a blow. I think H saw your side of things. You weren't begging him to come back, but you showed your hurt and disappointment. You weren't hanging on to his leg as he was trying to leave but he saw what your marriage means to you. He has to be thinking.
Way back at the beginning of our D, H and I spent an entire weekend together. It was great. Monday morning he left and that afternoon I got my papers in the mail that H had filed for D. Talk about a blow. Things can recover from this point and its just a piece of paper.
Hope you are feeling better today.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
