Most of those conflict-avoidant things don't apply to my H.

I just got back from a great exercise class, you'll all be happy to know!

After yesterday's session at MC, I am finding it excruciating to live with H and act as if for the sake of our kids. I really want him to move out since he has said over and over that he doesn't want to be married to me anymore and can't work on our M, has no hope that his feelings will change. But he won't because neither of us can face telling the kids and he refuses to tell them anything other than that we BOTH want this.

I would rather rip the band-aid off fast instead of this slooooow drawing out of the agony.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08