Sometimes maintaining the pretense of compassion and spousal respect (like a kiss goodbye) is enough to keep the spark alive.
BT, I thought you did fine. Attentive - you asked what's bugging her. She didn't know, you didn't press it. She appreciates you watching her, paying attention. Keep your cool.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....