I think all of us have probobly Gotten from point A to point B with out even thinking that we left the driveway.

My H is avoident also. I think the guilt he feels is terrible.
H also plans I fel on never talking about it because he just wants it to go away.
Oh well I guess if I want the M i'll have to decide if I can live with that. Im leaning toward the fact that I can as long as he's thru the crap.

I think that as long as he hasn't mentioned any thing about s or D then that means he's still keeping the option open to work things through because no matter what his mouth spews deep down he knows it''s just that, is it vomit you say!

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez