[/quote]I know it is not a joking matter, but I have to wonder after reading your story....was it his boss that gave him the "good" rating instead of "excellent"???[quote]
I was wondering this myself but it was asnwered farther in reading. Those OW's know just how to stroke H's egos.
You are amazing and don't feel you are weak if you need to cry, it just means you are human and have feelings.
Your H and Mine could be brothers. My H presented his MLC the same way yours did only he stayed in the house and the bedroom(which I think was soooo hard). Things are going pretty well now and we are trying to piece so thats where I post.
You have the right atitude about Ow also. She isn't worth putting ant effort into as it just keeps the A alive longer I think. Like you said it's not about any one but the WAS.
Hugs.
Wherer do you live in NY? I live in CNY near Pulaski and had three feet of snow yesterday.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 02/21/0803:14 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
