Feeling quite sad this morning. I keep replaying the conversation in my head. I still can't rid of this feeling that H is thinking things over...man am I stubborn.
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But so many then don't use DB to improve what pieces of the relationship they DO have.
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What you are going to do is build this friendship without him knowing you're building it. AND you're going to attract him back without him thinking you are even interested in him.
I'm going to think a lot about my new solutions journal and encorporate these things specifically.
hopetoworkitout, Thanks for your post. You are right, that most spouses don't do this. What amazes me is that the ones who do...are almost identical to each other. That's why I get hung up in the patterns because I'm hoping it continues to play out.
Still have those financial statements looming...maybe I'll try to finish those up today. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
