Joie, he's told me a few times that he loves OW, but lately just says that he is going to be divorcing me or we will be divorcing or that he'll be moving out. In the past (he hasn't in the past few weeks though!)he had the period where he was texting her, she would be buzzing him texting him, or he'll be going off to see her....just reminders for me. But then he has very sweet days like last night where we spent an hour together laughing and talking, watching TV. There was a moon eclipse he went out to see and he called me outside to join him and we had a great time together. I'm confused, and sometimes I wonder if he is too! Karen43