Retrouvaille Opinions?

[ediemarie]

HI - Retrouville was also a turning point in my M. I can agree with a lot of what Heartbroken has written. My H received a love note from OW on the day we left for Retrouvaille. I don't know if she knew we were going or not, but her note to my H basically said if we can't be together here on earth, our hearts are sure to be joined in the after life. (psycho)

Anyway, I think Retrouvaille had a larger impact on my H than it did for me. Part of that is because of my mind-set when we went into it. I certainly was under the impression that it would have an affect on our M and was convinced that H needed it. In reality, we both did. If I had gone into it more focused on me, rather than H, it would have been more beneficial for me. We also attended the post sessions and I cannot say enough good about the program. It works and it makes a difference with how you communicate with everyone, not just your spouse.

Em