After a mild skirmish about who was making the evening's "plan" (h had said early in the day that he would come up with a plan...when I spoke with him in the afternoon, he hadn't and didn't seem particularly inclined to do it...that sort of irked me...I don't mind making "the plan" or frankly not even having one...but I do mind thinking that he's going to make one -- per his assertion -- and then having him drop the ball. Anyway, I didn't express irritation but just asked directly if he was still going to plan something or if he wanted me to do it...h recommitted to making one).
Anyway...came home to candles in the bedroom and champagne... NOW, THAT'S A PLAN! We considered going to a movie later in the evening but got pizza/subs and watched two episodes of "From the Earth to the Moon" -- h loves the dvd set that I bought him -- we've been working our way through it together, now!!!
We're off to Montreal this weekend with another couple. Main goal is to see two Expos games I'm sure we'll squeeze in some drinks and food, too, but it's primarily about the baseball!!! Should be a good time (also nice to exorcise some ghosts...we went to Montreal with the same couple last year...things were a lot different in R then...given h's ongoing a... gonna eradicate THOSE cruddy memories!!!)
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Anyway, I didn't express irritation but just asked directly if he was still going to plan something or if he wanted me to do it...h recommitted to making one).
I'm sure we'll squeeze in some drinks and food, too, but it's primarily about the baseball!!! Should be a good time (also nice to exorcise some ghosts...we went to Montreal with the same couple last year...things were a lot different in R then...given h's ongoing a... 
