Hi Mishka,
Thanks for asking. Well, H was contrite but still angry. Said he had obviously misinterpreted what I said as a threat from me. Said my mother had caught him looking at porn, he apologized, and she said you shouldn't be looking at that stuff with small kids in the house. Adamently denies asking her to view. Porn has been an issue in our relationship. He still hates her, though, and she hates him- they've had a very rocky relationship over the years. Said he would not try to take the kids, that we would still stick by what we had agreed so far. He doesn't want my mother in the house again before he leaves. We're going to finish the document and before anyone signs it will go to a mediator to review. If we can't agree on everything, then we each bring our lawyers in. I've already contacted one. I don't even know what I want anymore after the other night. Boy this sucks.

How are things with you?


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08