jmw, when I get time I will check your sitch, this is one part that I cannot get my head round at all, ex always used to say son was the most and best thing that had ever happened for him, he loved him unconditionally, now nearly a year and nothing, no money sent for son's food etc, no contact, about 5 missed calls to son's cell phone but they were number witheld, so may not have been dad, how in the lord's name can they just turn away from their own flesh and blood so cleanly and strongly, to just walk away and not bother, to not look back and check how your kid's doing, he even threw us out of our home, couldn't care less if son was on streets, whats gone wrong, he was far from being like this, I don't believe it is just cause he's rushed and got married to the village ho, it sure has to be this bloody mlc business, but to turn on your kids.