I am hear for a very different reason. I will be divorced in the next month after 12 years of marriage. My wife was bitter and wanted out. I was very alone for a while and after several dates found an amazing woman. While dating before I met her though I had gotten into exchanging adult pictures and such which in a relationship is ok but not with other people. We were engaged until a few weeks ago when she broke things off because of my actions. I have started counseling and wish to repair the relationship but am not sure what I should do. I have cleared my life of any past relationship, changed phone numbers, email address, closed unused email address. I want her back so bad. She is still upset with me, we had talked about this before and while I thought I had taken the necessary action to keep people from sending me pictures I still got them and sent two pictures in the last three months. I didn't think, it somehow seemed careless so with counseling I will get this resolved if it kills me. I can't make her want to take me back, all I can do is show her that I have changed and have safe guards that will keep me this way, and that I can be trusted to not send pictures that should be meant for her and only her as she put it. Is there hope? Will I ever hold the love of my life again?
