I felt horrible when my wife filed for sep/div. We were so miserable together. I enjoyed hearing my girls and playing with my girls. I enjoyed my home. Now I have to make a consistant effort to see them at lunch at school or after words and then every other weekend I get to see them. I miss being married and having a family but I don't miss the misery and her bitterness. She recently asked to push the divorce through and I let the lady I was dating know. Life has bumps in the road the question is can you make the best of it.
