Sleeping Dogs

[SirPrizeMe]

Wow! Good for you Grace.
That's beautiful. The peace you have found is worth holding onto, with both hands.

I love the way you put that.

We think that our S's are too "proud" once they leave to come back. I've come to a place where I don't see it as pride so much (at least with my H) as their own fear. Fear of rejection and inadequacy. It's sad that any of those things would bar them from coming back. Mostly b/c I think of the regret and torment they'd live with.

That makes sense to me. I see lots of fear in my WAW these days. Unjustified Fear, almost to the point of paranoia. With that kind of fear burbling in her belly, there's no way she could come back.

If this continues, is she destined to live with regret and torment? Hmmm, not sure. I feel certain she is on a track to justify herself. She is inventing crimes for me, to justify her actions. Because I am the bad guy, no regret on her part.

See? See how handy vilification can be? Simple. Easy. Cleans up any mess.

cheers