Mike, Glad somebody got to sleep late. I was up at 8 on Saturday.
I guess since she is maintaining the position that she doesn't want to pursue divorce, you are at some stage of piecing. Glad to see you here.
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She wants to remain here, remain married but she admits that she's not sure why (love, kids, easier, etc.) I don't mind the honesty, truly appreciate it actually, but it's still not the "What the hell was I thinking? Of course I love you. Look what I was about to do to us" that I had been hoping for. She has agreed that unless we do something to help her find out WHY, things won't change all that much for the better.
Reality is, I guess, there are still a lot of questions in her mind as to how we got here and why. Also, I'm sure she's really starting to consider the amount of work it's going to take to get things back on track. Hell, I'm a little nervous about that myself.
I can completely understand wanting to see the light bulb come on and having the W come to the oh so obvious conclusion that you have already arrived at. I've felt the same way myself. Unfortunately there are many mixed emotions that will take time for her to sort out and also, the work ahead can seem daunting. Just try to put a little bug in her ear that work doesn't always need to be difficult and tiring. It can sometimes be fun and rewarding if you know what I mean? Try to be flirty and even a little cocky. It might get her attention.
