Oh, yes SAGE!!!!

This is KEY! Do you mean you still look at stuff they wrote (literally) or just ruminate over the memory of it?

Because although I still have my "file of evidence" I have not glanced at it ONCE since putting it aside (probably read the stuff 2X at most).

You CANNOT let this skank's memory foul up your marriage! And BRAVO for making this your main goal. It does bleed into all of the others, doesn't it?

I can't help but admire your strength and depth of spirit. DO IT! She ain't worth one more of your neurons firing!

Shiny