I went back and re-read Heartbroken's threads (they are inspiring and I am very happy for where she is now!), and I see that she and H attended Retrouvaille last October, which was about 7 months after H broke away from the OW - yet he was making phone calls to her from Retrouvaille.
Can you, Heartbroken, or anyone else here, speak from experience about attending Retrouvaille while a spouse was still involved in a R with OP?
How can you get an understanding of what led to your spouse having the A, or what they felt was lacking in the marriage, if your spouse has never told you and Retrouvaille does not allow you to talk about the past in the dialogues?
Thanks in advance for any words of experience or wisdom you might share...
LG
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
