Yeah, its me. Glad you like the new name. My h is the same. I could cut the anger with a knife but he doesnt want to talk about it. Anyway, I think it is best for you to not talk to your h right now. Your posts seems much calmer when you arent in contact.
Has he tried to contact you at all? I am just curious what you've read about passive-aggressive. The other day my C asked me to read something. I started reading it and the title was covered. I said OMG, this is my h. She showed me the title - it was obsessive-compulsive personality. Not to be confused with OCD. It brought some clarity to things I have thought about my h but thought it must be in my head. Interesting stuff all this, no?