He's a little more detached from me, less likely to eat dinner with us and more likely to cook (for himself). I don't know what he's doing, but I don't ask and do not snoop.
Right there with ya. She asked me to stop making breakfast for her. I didn't. Sometimes when she's mad at me she scrapes it off in the trash and makes something different. Whatever. I'm going to be a decent man until the end. (I DID stop warming up her car for her in the morning, that seemed to really pi$$ her off for some reason.)
I don't snoop either, although she's left her journal and other things conspicuously available. I just don't need more venom.
I'm in a pretty good place mentally (most of the time).
Me too finally. So nice to be able to sleep again.
The only thing I can say for anyone who reads this and thinks my sitch is very similar to thiers is that my H is conflict avoidant. B/c of this the DB coach I have spoken to has offered that he may be less likely to return once he leaves. Doesn't really matter what anyone (including me) thinks "may" happen.
Same here. With my W, there is also a high "pride" factor, and she can't admit she is wrong on anything without a lot of turmoil. This alone will make it hard for her to come back, regardless of how well I DB. Time will tell.
I won't know the answer until I do wither way. I've got enough time under my belt to believe that whatever happens is what's meant to happen. I have the choice of whether I learn from this and am happy either b/c or in spite of.
Letting go is it's own kind of peace. But it's still peace, and I'll take that.
Wow, that was a little to philosophical for this early esp without a drink.
I've had one. Well, maybe 2. Anyway, I'm not p.o'd, and I'm not liquified. NICE.
Fear is the mind killer.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
