Thanks everyone for the support--it's nice to feel cared about and to be able to talk about all this stuff.
Ali, I haven't figured out what planet she is on yet. But I will say that I think (not sure) she wasn't meaning to minimize my feelings about the sadness...I think it was in the context of wanting to make sure that there wasn't something from that night that she had said/done that was upsetting. But yeah, I get where you're coming from on this!!!
